Practicing what I preach

"Every training I lead, I'm compelled to live its message. " I wish I could remember the origin of that quote (if you know who said it, please let me know!). I heard it first early in my career, when I began working with and for early childhood teachers; I knew that I could impress [...]

Choose Joy

"Choose joy." We spent lots of time at today's Behavior Collaboration meeting discussing behavior management strategies, sharing ideas about "what works" -- we're planning a full day conference for October 2018 and it's going to be pure awesome, BTW! -- and every layer of conversation, every tip and trick, and every success story had one [...]

Compliment publicly. Correct privately.

"That date is wrong." "Can you correct that typo?" "You really need to..." Do you really have to "reply all" with that? I admit that I am biased against "reply all" - anyone who has received 104 "me too" responses surely feels my pain there. But when someone nitpicks in such a public way? Or [...]

Butterfly Wishes

This post was originally shared at http://www.wnybehaviortoolbox.com on August 2, 2017. There's a small path in Burchfield Park, where children write wishes on paper butterflies and hang them from the trees.  As you might expect, there are wishes for candy, for toys, and for other treats. Scattered among those, you'll find quite few wishes that [...]